About Jewellery Sexology

I had the best looking marriage and family but I was dying inside with the state of my sex life. 

We had a successful business, cute kids, we were travelling the world but when I tell you I felt stuck, ashamed, and honestly kind of hopeless about the whole thing. I mean STUCK. 

Growing up in christian spaces and purity culture meant sex came with rules, fear, and silence and I felt totally broken by it. I had next to no real sex education growing up and lugged shame around like a ball and chain, even though I’d tried so hard to get it “right.” 

After years of pain and terrible advice from some well meaning but ill informed folk, it felt like the sun finally started coming up when I got real support and realised I wasn't broken.

You're not either in case you're wondering.  

I realised pretty soon after that I couldn't ignore the need for factual, shame free, honest conversations about sex for people who had grown up in church.

I retrained as a Sexologist and Relationship coach, specialising in helping people recovering from the shame-based religious teachings of purity culture and the deconstruction of their faith. 

I'm trained in Clinical Sexology, as a Certified Advanced Sex and Relationship Coach, and as an Integrated Intimacy Practitioner with additional study in Positive Psychology and Trauma-Informed Care.

I'm also a Safe & Sound Practitioner and a Protect Accredited Trainer (New Zealands leading protection and self defense agency) and for more than 14 years I've worked with clients to help them identify the behavioral and psychological signs of abuse and practical strategies for staying safe.

I've worked with hundreds of people to help them get back in touch with their bodies, their partner and actually feel like sex is something that is worth their time and energy. 

And yes, I'm a jeweller and artist too.  (More about that later).

Things I hear on the regular from clients:

  • Going from zero motivation and tears at the thought of having sex to loving it and having sex regularly.

  • Having deeper and more intimate conversations than ever before with their partners

  • Finding time and space to embrace their own sensuality and capacity for pleasure.

Most of all, they're feeling freer. They've reclaimed their voice. They have a connection with themselves, their bodies, and their partners,without all the shame and pressure. 

Wherever you’re at, I am so glad you’ve stopped by.

If you are ready for support you can either book a call to talk more about it, or grab yourself a self study option from below. 

Free
3 Simple Conversations
Purity Culture Quiz

Courses
Want and Enjoy Sex (without pressure)
Hotter Sex in 10 Days
The Shame Free Sex Course

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