Absolutely, this guide is crafted with real sensitivity towards individuals who have navigated through purity culture and experienced religious shame around sex. There are plenty of ‘how to have good sex’ products out there but this one is unique in that it’s tailored to people who’ve experienced religious shame and beliefs about sex, so yes, yes, yes to answer this question!

The guide is made to gently facilitate open communication and exploration. It helps you make a safe and non-judgmental space for having these conversations and doing the activities together. It steps you through the stages of creating connection first and then moves into more explicit content. There are loads of options depending on how comfortable you each feel with it all.

The bonus content is included in the latter section of the eBook, providing additional resources and explorative activities to help you on your way.

The eBook is in PDF format, ensuring easy access and readability on various devices. It's designed to be easy to read on mobile. You also get a copy of all the worksheet pages from the guide as a separate printable.

Absolutely, your privacy is important, and all purchase processes ensure confidentiality. You will receive an email after purchasing that mentions the name of the guide, so maybe use a personal email address if you don't want that showing up at work!

The guide contains discussions and activities related to sexual exploration, relationships and intimacy but is presented in a manner that is considerate. The resources section at the end contains the more explicit content with anatomical diagrams, discussions on positions and 'dirty talk'. You can choose to not read these sections if you prefer.

While the guide provides a safe space to explore and communicate, it is not a substitute for professional support. If unresolved issues surface, please reach out. Let's make sure you've got the appropriate help and you can live free.

Totally! Hotter sex is not just about P and V penetration. There are so many other ways to get hot and heavy that you will learn about in this guide, as well as understanding desire and anatomy. You may need a little bit of extra support for your individual circumstance, however, everything you learn in the guide can greatly increase your connection as you navigate these areas.

This is a really sensitive area, and I recommend that you seek support from a betrayal and infidelity sex therapist first. If you have been doing the work to reconnect for some time already and feel ready to step into increasing your connection in new ways, then, yes, the guide could be helpful, but please go slowly and see a therapist first.

Definitely! The guide is designed to help you re-meet each other and discover what good sex would actually be for each of you. You’ll learn how to find out what your partner actually likes and communicate about what makes sex great for you. If you never really had that solid start to begin with, this is a chance to find some spark together.

100%. This guide will help couples who have been dating for a few months, married for 50 years or in any kind of partnership. It’s all-inclusive and really doesn’t matter what phase of your relationship you’re  in, there’s something in it for everyone.

This depends. If you are currently experiencing domestic abuse, please seek support and ensure your safety as soon as you can.

If discussing sex is triggering due to past experiences, I recommend you contact me before purchasing. Email [email protected]

However, if you feel comfortable that your partner is a safe place for these discussions, there are reminders throughout the content to encourage body awareness, consent, and taking things slow, so in that case, yes, go right ahead and purchase the guide.

Short answer - Yes! Long answer - Ideally you and your partner would work through the guide together to get the most out of it. When you’re time poor, feeling the pressure, busy with life/kids/work etc it can be hard to be on the same page. Doing this guide together will help you reconnect and build your connection and intimacy.

Yes, but... I would suggest you have a conversation about this with your partner first. There’s a chance your partner could be offended or feel under pressure if you surprise them with a guide about hotter sex! But if you’re both open to this conversation, then go for it. It’s about so much more than just having more sex, and you’ll find the activities deeply connecting if you’re both willing to do the work.

Yes, while the guide is structured for 10 days, you are encouraged to move through it at a pace that feels comfortable and safe for both partners.